Ruth Nieves

I always thought that I was good with change. That I didn't mind change. That I thrived with change. I found out that this was all true when it was good change. Like a new home change or a vacation change. Lots and Lots of changes have been occurring in my life lately...A LOT. Do all changes lead to good? I haven't figured that out quite yet. Does a divorce lead to good? Maybe in just the realization that you could've worked harder and done more. Maybe the realization is the good. That maybe the second time around since you're wiser now things will be different. Was the death of a child good? Never. But that another child was born that might not have been born had the other child lived is good...That there is purpose in every change. That there is something to be learned with every change. That there is growing with every change. Yes, I've grown and seen purpose and meaning come from all sorts of changes in my life. I'm not divorced but have friends who have exp